Sweden and kids

Coming back to Sweden made me realize just how much I miss being home. Yes it's cold but it should be cold during this time of the year. I had so much fun though except for when I travelled with my plastic bag of clothes between friends (my new nickname is baglady). We went out clubbing, shopping and went to dinners. There was a lot of wine drinking may I say (I think I still carry those sexy purple lips). Everything is so easy at home.. chilling or just meeting up for coffee, god I miss living there. In the end of my trip I came to the conclusion that before summer hit Sweden I will move back..

So what happened in Sweden? Well, without being mean to my family, I had more fun away from them then what I had with them.. It was nice seeing them but my mum worked the whole time and when she did my brother was asleep, hmm.... So my only company was either the dogs and cats or my grandmother who is becoming severely dement, which meant that she kept forgetting everything after half an hour or kept talking about the past. SO I packed my bag and ran away to stockholm to hang out with my friends.

We didn't do much.. We mostly just hanged out and drank wine. Talked about old times and what everyone is doing now. To my surprise, everyone (almost) is having kids. I noticed that when I went to a friends birthday hang. Everyone there except for on of my closest friends had kids. They either had kids or were about to pop any time soon. I told one of the girls there that maybe I should leave cuz I feel so missplaced. I have been gone for 3 years and it seems like that during this time people have been occupied getting pregnant and raising kids. And of course, they started asking questions about when me and my bf is going to have kids.. Excuse me??? Kids?? No thank you.. I just finished university and my first plan is not to have kids. I want to travel and enjoy my life before I have to take care about someone else's life. So my reply to them were " I just need to watch you guys with your kids, changing diapers etc. to know that I won't plan for kids just yet. I can do whatever I want atm and I want to do just that".